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The creator life

a conversation · 52 pieces · 52 essays · began oct 2020 · dormant since jun 2025

Building the Perfect Membership Publication Tech StackSubstack, Ghost, WordPress, Webflow, Oh My!essay · oct 30, 2020
On Commitment, Fear, and Publishing ConsistentlyMake the commitment to show up and publish consistently. Your fans—and your bank account—will thank you.essay · dec 2, 2020
The Gatekeeper MythTo be gated or ungated? That is the question.essay · dec 16, 2020
Welcome to Ungated 2.0I couldn’t find a proper instruction manual for 1000 True Fans. So I’m spending the year 2021 writing one.essay · dec 19, 2020
The Quest for CommunityHow I killed five birds with one stone and built the community of my dreams.essay · mar 31, 2021
Dispatches from the Long GameAn uncomfortably transparent look inside the Ungated business from February 21st to April 11th, 2021.essay · apr 19, 2021
Why I Moved from Webflow to GhostIn which my wild ride with membership websites comes to its dramatic conclusion.essay · apr 30, 2021
My unconventional business principlesWhy I’m ignoring the norms of online marketing, and maybe you should too.essay · may 7, 2021
Default to generosityOn creating a renaissance of trust on the internet, and leaning into the Gift Economy.essay · may 12, 2021
Don’t be a commodityWhy it’s so important, and so difficult, to differentiate yourself in a noisy world.essay · may 18, 2021
Transitioning to the Gift EconomyHow I plan to build a thriving business by making my products available for free.essay · may 31, 2021
Gift Economy - A Strategy UpdateThis new business model is seriously messing with my head. Here’s how I’m quieting down the fear response.essay · jun 20, 2021
On GenerosityIs it a virtue, or a vice?essay · jul 1, 2021
The Ungated Worldview (Part 1)My entire belief system fell apart last year. And now I’m piecing together what comes next.essay · aug 31, 2021
I’m over-complicating my business… againIn which an old pattern of self-sabotage returns in a new form.essay · sep 4, 2021
I gave up on trying to find my nicheI followed my own niche advice, and ended up somewhere I never expected.essay · sep 10, 2021
Goodbye, Gift EconomyIt’s the end of a (very brief) era. Here’s what I learned, earned, and what’s coming next.essay · oct 5, 2021
Three anecdotes about influencer marketingAn inquiry into the nature of trust, shared values, and harnessing influence.essay · oct 11, 2021
Exploration & CommitmentA meditation on falling apart, discovering what matters, then putting yourself back together.essay · nov 6, 2021
A letter from future RobAn experiment in quieting the voice of self-doubt, and making myself feel better on a shitty day.essay · dec 9, 2021
lowercase magichow ignoring the rules of capitalization catapulted me into the land of cathartic creativityessay · dec 28, 2021
Imperfectionist, Learner, ExplorerOn discovering a healthier, more adaptive source of self worth.essay · jan 3, 2022
An SEO Redemption StoryHow I let the golden goose get away, and the plan to bring it back.essay · jan 17, 2022
My marketing strategy for 2022It’s very sophisticated.essay · feb 14, 2022
I am not an expert…despite any contradictory signals I might sendessay · feb 16, 2022
Contortionists & ExpansionistsOn containing multitudes, and not being shy about it.essay · feb 17, 2022
Marketing emergence in real timeA very cool thing that’s happening with my business and marketing (like, right now)essay · feb 18, 2022
Past-Self AntagonismPresent Rob should probably stop being a dick to Past Rob.essay · feb 19, 2022
My new approach to communityAn experiment in community management from the bottom up instead of the top down.essay · feb 23, 2022
Courage & CommunityOn discovering an abundant new source of courage in a world that desperately needs it.essay · mar 29, 2022
You don’t have to scale your businessYou really don’t. It’s ok. I promise.essay · apr 5, 2022
Pivoting to CourageUnveiling the next iteration of Ungatedessay · apr 7, 2022
Cultivating a community of courageUnveiling the next iteration of the Ungated Collectiveessay · apr 11, 2022
The Arena - A PrimerA process for coming alive in your creative work, and becoming who you areessay · aug 3, 2022
Substack?? (lol wtf)Why I’m publishing on Substack after two years of open hostility towards it.essay · nov 16, 2022
why i’m leaving thrivecartit’s been a nice run, but it’s time to put my money where my values areessay · dec 24, 2022
Three cool thingsWhat I’ve been working on, and what’s coming nextessay · feb 5, 2023
rob’s writing roundup! (week one)an executive summary of my shockingly prolific weekessay · feb 12, 2023
Slowing down, finding balanceThe hidden cost of my very prolific weekessay · feb 13, 2023
One customer at a timeInside of me there are two wolvesessay · feb 15, 2023
I nuked today’s post (lol)Instead, here’s a juicy question I’m starting to exploreessay · feb 17, 2023
rob’s writing roundup! (week two)14 days into this challenge, and I am still alive and kickin’essay · feb 19, 2023
Sticking the landingTaking another crack at an essay with big potentialessay · feb 20, 2023
Revisiting Perennial SellerUntangling one of the roots of my perfectionismessay · feb 23, 2023
Should I start writing with AI?Why I’m so resistant to merging myself with the machineessay · feb 24, 2023
On serendipity & magicSome cool shit is happening over here, y’allessay · feb 25, 2023
Rob’s writing roundup!Single-sentence summaries of everything I wrote this weekessay · feb 26, 2023
New domain, who dis??On finding the perfect domain for an increasingly weird websiteessay · may 3, 2024
All that remainsDevoting myself to the work I can no longer hide fromessay · may 14, 2024
A more joyful businessMy plan for un-sabotaging my business, and becoming more humanessay · may 17, 2024
coming undoneon learning to be human in publicessay · nov 8, 2024
Soul work and securityHow can I balance the work I feel called towards, and my need for financial security?essay · jun 3, 2025
This thread went quiet here. It might pick back up someday.